Parenting and Kids!

    

 

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Kid’s life is based on concept of parenting. It deals with various types of growing style, kids’ habit, their likes and dislikes. The main point here is to make understand parents how to handle kids. A little patience can make all the difference between wanting to b a good parents and actually being one. Good parenting does not mean giving a kid a perfect life but it is actually means to teach kids how to lead a good and happy life in this imperfect world.

                            

It is likely said that there is no one definition or a single method of a good parenting. A few tips on good parenting can go a long way in ensuring a happy life for your kids. Let’s have a look at some tips......

Mould your kids from childhood/early age 

Try to form a routine for your kids from their early age or childhood. As it is said wet clay mold faster than the dried one, so same is with kids, they are like were clay. Kids learn more from what we are than what we teach. They will try to be mirror images of parents. So as a parent if you are genuinely interested in giving your kid a best growing you should first ourselves into a peaceful and lovable person.

Never compare your kids to other and let them grow naturally

All kids in this world are different from each other. All the kids have different tastes, liking and needs different types of attention and love from their parents. Never ever compare your kids to others and don’t try to force your thoughts on them. Let them think themselves. And let them do something unique things in their life, only than thy get the confidence of doing independently. Kids are not your property, let them grow naturally. Don’t give them artificially upbringing. Just support them where they are right. Don’t make them your investment.

Don't expect more then needed

                          

Expectation should be there but more expectation is harmful. Expect from your kids but be realistic with your expectations. When you find that your kid is capable of doing a specific job nicely, then encourages them but on contrary if they are just learning allow them to learn at their own pace.

A good communication

Communication is very important between parents and kids. Listening to your kids is nicely is a good practice. As they grow up they may ask different types of curious questions and puzzles also. As a good parent you should listen to all their queries. The better you listen the more likely your kids will be open to you and will share more and more things with you. Whenever you are about to lose your patience with their difficult questions and queries, just stop for a while and try to recollect your childhood.

Be a friend more than a parent

Nothing you do for your kids is wasted. A kid can teach u many things in life. For example:

Always be curious,

Be happy without any reason,

Fight till the end for anything you want.

Parenting is the easiest thing in the world to give as an opinion, but is the toughest thing to implement on us in this imperfect world….

Have a blissful motherhood!