Kid’s expectation from their parents is but same as parent’s expectation from kids.
What
kids wants from parents is a great topic.
Here are some more of the
points what kids expect from parents.
CORRECTION:
Kids always love if
you correct them in right manner. Everyone needs correction at some time or
another, age doesn’t mind for that. Many kids in today’s generation doesn’t get
proper correction at right time which they need, so its possibility that they
may start a wrong way in life…So parents should make them understand that
things don’t go as they want, they should not be that hyper or and don’t get mad
in any odd situation, as some kids have the habit, if the things doesn’t
happens as they won’t they will get mad or just shout at someone or the others.
Parents need to be teachers. They need to show kids what is right or wrong. Parents should set down some laws which should be
followed by parents first and then kids.
HONESTY AND LOVE:
Most important thing
I think will be honesty which kids expect from parents. All parents should be
honest to their kids. If you expect honesty from your kids you have to do first,
then only you will get that return. It is like
that how you sow as is you get. When
we ask kids not to fight with elders or there brothers and sisters, they will
do the same as we do…if parents are fighting with each other’s then it’s but
natural they will do the same. They expect love and compassion from parents
when they do something wrong, they expect a chance to modify the mistake and
get some right path from you parents.
The thing is that
love goes hand in hand with honesty. It really sad when we see parents that
don’t love their children and don’t care what their children do or what type of
trouble are their children facing.
PAY ATTENTIONS:
Kids expect their
parents to pay attention in there day to day work, whether it is their homework
or any playing activities. Kids expect that parents should give attention
whenever they need, keeping T.V off and mobile in silent mode and listen to
kids talk or any problems. Encourage kids when they do good things. Say positive
words more then negative one. Take time to explain kids what is wrong and
right.
SHARE/SOMEONE TO TALK TO:
When sometimes your
kids feel something bad of someone and needs to talk to someone, you should be
there for them. They are facing any problem then they should be sure of that
their parents will be the best place to share the problems. If you expect love
from your kids you have to show your love and caring nature to kids first then
you will definitely get it back as reward. Parents should love their kids and
also show them that they care for them… Show that you are always there for
them..Then only they will feel secure and share all things to you parents…
Have a strong relationship with your child
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