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The world
is now so much busy that they forget to see to the child’s expectation and fail
to remember the value of spending some time with children s. We spends our most
of our time with computers, machines and struggling for a job. So the people
have really forgotten to talk with living beings, live with nature and fights
with their younger ones. If we have a look at our schedule it will be like
mornings alarm to night, a running a race.
It is the
duty of a child to fulfill all the parents’ dreams, and make them happy by
listening to their parents and doing as their parents wants…..But its parent’s
duty also to make their kids understand this. Time is most important
thing in a kids parent relationship and don’t forget to spend time with one of
your important person,,,, that is your child.
If parent can expect
from kids so much then why not kids. They also expect from parents some things….Here
are some things that kids really expect from parents…
LISTENING
Parents must be child’s
best friend and must be mutual relationship. First of all you have to convince
your child that you are his or her best friend, and you are always beside him/her
whenever they need you. They must feel secure and comfortable share you everything
s happening in there life. And this will be only possible when you listen to them
carefully for any small or big issues they share with you. This attitude of
your s will make child feel that they are more important to you than another
thing in the world. You should listen to them, discuss with them, tell them the
good and bad and you can always give suggestions and tell him, that you have
given your view and now its theirs choice what to take decisions. They have
right to make some decisions at their own. And also give them assurance that
you trust them that they will take a right decisions. This will make them feel
that you give importance to their interest. You can share your day spent in
your house or in office, so that they will feel to share there’s.
SPEND TIME WITH THEM:
Many times when you
ask your kids that what they want? They will simply reply that they need time
of yours. In this busy world now a day’s parents fail to spend time with their kids.
They give them everything before kids ask for but fail to give time to kids.
The fact is that, it is the responsibility of a parents to make their children
s life a better one. But the most important thing is to live with them, to share
their emotions, there happiness, sadness, anger, expectation, disappointments, love,
there interest, and everything…It is the parent who
should say that put your phone away when I am talking to you……But is the other
way round now a days. Kids say these words to their parents. So make practice
to spend your some time with your favorites, that is your kids..
COMMUNICATION:
Communication or lack
of communication is one major issue where distance is created between kids and
parents. Many parents are not aware of their kid’s interest, dreams, hopes, desires,
or sometimes also problems which there child is facing. So take some time and
sit with your kid and talk about their interest, dreams, what they are thinking
and ask them are they facing any problems in their schools or colleges. By this
communication you will be updated about their likes and dislikes or any issues
if they are facing. And they will also feel secure that their parents are
taking interest in his life.
Kids
expectation are not false, respect them…
Very nice..
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